Life

Many comparisons are comparing with different people, except politeness.

Degree of politeness shows how you feel about others. If you are a polite person and you show your politeness to everyone, nobody would feel your politeness. And if you decrease your politeness to a particular person, he/she would feel you don not like him/her even though you are still polite to him/her.

A good thing does not only mean how does it make you feel good, also include other goods things it causes. A bad thing does not only mean how does it make you feel bad, also include other bag things it causes.
For example, when a good incident happens to you, you feel happy and have higher motivation to do other things. It would cause success to other things.
If a bad incident happens to you. You feel unhappy and lose motivation to do other things. It would cause loss to other things.

When I argue with my families members, I imagine if they can choose would they choose to be with me.
But everytime when I have problems, my family is the only one would always stand by my side.
Maybe because we cannot choose our family, there is always someone stand by our side and never alone.

I am not easy to get use to a new environment.

Every time I start a new life, I think of my old mates. I imagine if they were here, they would understand my difficulties and life would become easier.
But when I meet them again, I found they all have changed. They are not the same as I used to know and it may be even easier to get along with the new mates.

Maybe I am the only one refuse changes.

There are two (or more) election candidates who come from different parties. One comes from the party which you stand on the same side of its political sight but he is useless and stupid. Another candidate comes from the party which you stand opposite to its political side but he is very helpful and intelligent. Which one do you choose?

I sometimes wonder the friendship with the one I love the most cannot last for a long time.
I always lose the connect with those I love.
Even I try to denied to have friends as I fear of losing them.

But I found friendship may be a thing that always cannot last forever. I care about this just because I love them.

People always regret what they have done for whom they love. It is because they found whom they love do not love them, or somehow they feel it is not worth doing so much for them.

What I want to say is there is never anything not worth doing for the one you love.
You do anything for the one you love just because you love him/her. No matter you do is how hard, you still feel happy as (you think) you are doing for the one you love.

Actually, the reason you do for them is you feel happy when doing things for the one you love but not because you think they love you.

So never regret what you have done for others when you found they do not love you or they do not treat you as well as you treat them. Just recall how you felt when you did for them.

I love talking with people with different cultural backgrounds. Life is different under the same sky. Talking with people from other part of the world make me found the world is much more big than I thought.
When you think the bad situation cannot be changed, there are some people dealing with it perfectly in other parts of the world.
For example, you hate eating because all you ate is tasteless. Actually, there are many countries have delicious meals.

All people on the world are under the same sky.
We all have 24 hours a day, twelve months a year.
Why some people are so busy and some have more free time?
Actually, those people in poor countries are much busier than those in rich countries.
This is not fair!

You think you can control yourself? No, you can't.
People sometimes say "If I were you/him/her, I'd ..."
Actually, if you were someone else, nothing would change.
Because if you were someone else, you would made the same decision.
Otherwise, you are still you.
So what you are doing is not really your choice.
For example, if you are and Indian, you'd love curry.
If you are an Italian, you'd love pasta.
What you live to eat is highly influenced by your culture.
Other preferences are also the same.